Saturday, February 13, 2010

Periodic update

This week has been good--slime never really became a problem, absolutely no mouth sores, and the ability to eat real food, even though there is very little appetite. The reduction in Xeloda obviously has made a real difference, and I like it. Should be a good weekend, perhaps some outings in the offing. Further south, I still struggle with a rash/infection that will finally get me to an Urologist on Monday. I've had just a touch of constipation, but I continue to pop stool softeners like candy.

Many of you know that we have lived in the same house for forty years. Since I retired six years ago, I have greatly expanded what already was an extensive array of gardens, flower beds, and landscaping. Well, those decisions don't always turn out like you intended. I simply will not be to do this work anymore, nor manage a fairly large lawn. So we have made the decision to finally move on. We are looking at a nice condo, of which there are very few on the north side, and trying to figure out what we would do with all the furniture and "stuff" we have collected over nearly half a century. Painful as this is for us and our kids, there seems little choice. Between the expense of having the lawn/landscaping/gardening/snow removal hired out and the cost of maintaining a sixty-five year old three bedroom, two bath, house for just the two of us, it seems inevitable. Life goes on.

4 comments:

  1. Wow Dick! That had to be a difficult decision for you and Emily to "relocate". When you do that, some very fortunate family will be blessed with a wonderful home because of all your hard work over the years. Glad that you're having good days and I'll keep praying for more of those to come!

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  2. Dear Dick and Emily! We support your decision to downsize, and we'll be there to lend a hand starting in April....after 26 years of being 'neighbors', where ever you land, we'll still be popping in to bother you, especially at the cocktail hour, even if it's just for a glass of ice water!! With much love and faith for good days ahead for all of us....Marion and Bob

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  3. Yes, Wow!, Dick and Em! You do keep stirring that pot... It's hard to think of you somewhere else, but what a liberating decision, too. There will be as much help and support with the move as you want and need,of this I'm sure. You've created a lovely sanctuary, but wherever you are the best part of it all will always be, anyway.
    So glad that it's been a better week than expected, and best of luck with those pesky nether issues...
    As Marion says... here's to better days!!
    Happy Valentine Day to the lovebirds.
    jan

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  4. How smart are the two of you! Your decision is practical and proactive. My hat off to you. Too many people are pulled out of their long time home kicking and screaming not acknowledging the realities of their situation.

    When we moved we had been in our house for 31 years. Lots of stuff to sort through. I suspect the two of you have been better about keeping "stuff" in check than we had. Besides, it's about time for spring cleaning - right?

    Good luck with your home search and moving plans. I know you'll have lots of helpers and you have a good friend with lots of moving experience. You have an adorable home and I wish you well with the sale.

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